Have you ever meet a person who is totally seeing himself as the righteous. His opinion is the greatest, the splendidest. Like, hummm lets take this as an example.
"I want to live in the city when I grow up."
"Oh really? Hum that sounds great. I want to live in my hometown, but it is not a big city. It is not a developed area."
"I just don't get it why people don't want to live in the city. You know what, in our era, those who stay in the village won't get special facilities bla3."
"Nahh it's okay. I just want to stay with my parents till their dying day. I want to take care of them."
"The problem is, why you want to sacrifice your ages bal3??"
Okay, she's rejecting again.
Well there are some people that do not really can accept others' opinion. They think they got the best idea and everyone should follow their steps. I've met up this kind of people. Not so many but there are.
Why can't they just accept others' opinion as every human got their own right to express. We all got our freedom to express thoughts and feelings. You don't just have to bother yours. You may dislike others opinion and thoughts, but you may accept them, not rejecting and stressing them to accept yours.
Life is not about to win all the time. Life is about to be happy when others are happy. There is no use if you win while others are irritated.
You don't have to agree with everything but you should not disagree with everything.
I've told this to my friend and she accepted it. She understand Alhamdulillah.
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